Standard and Classic Songs That Will Never Die

The traditions surrounding a wedding have lasted centuries. Dating back to the time of ancient Greeks and Romans, we still abide by many traditional wedding expectations. The concept of wearing white at your wedding dates back to the 1800s. The “Something Old, Something Borrowed, Something New, Something Blue” is a relic of the Victorian Era. Some traditions have lasted throughout time while others have been updated. Tossing rice is still practiced at some more traditional weddings while others have opted for a sparkler exit. Other traditions have been abandoned altogether. These traditions were once held in high regard, but have since become outdated. One tradition that will always be an integral part of weddings is the use of music. 

Music has been present at weddings since at least the 16th century. The tradition of music used to have more religious tones. The songs would be performed by a singular person or a choir. Even the song “Here Comes the Bride” dates back to the 1850s. Other traditions were added over time like the couples first dance and parent dances. Music at weddings has come a long way since then. Music is now a way to show self expression and evoke the feeling of two families coming together. With the constant flux of traditions, what standard and classical songs have lasted the ages? What are the wedding songs that will never die?

Slow Ballads

The first style of music to come to mind when it comes to a wedding is the ballad. These classic love songs are the easiest way to express the complex and simple emotion of love. These include classic love songs like “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis Presley,  “When a Man Loves a Woman” by Percy Sledge, and “At Last” by Etta James. These songs have been played at dozens of weddings over decades. The originals have become old standards, but there is another reason they have lasted so long. 

Thematically these songs have a lot of depth, but are very simple to replicate. There are dozens of covers of these songs. Popular artists like Michael Bolton and Haley Reinhart have put their own spin on these classical songs. Even without the lyrics, songs like these standout with instrumental versions. Guests immediately recognize these songs no matter what instrument is playing these songs. 

Peppy Love Songs

There are other songs that convey love in a different way. These songs are a little less sappy and lean more into the childlike glee of love. They can get the feet moving a bit quicker than a ballad, but they are still sentimental. Some songs like this include  “You Make My Dreams Come True” by Hall and Oates, “Happy Together” by The Turtles, and “The Way You Look Tonight” by Frank Sinatra. These tend to have been pretty popular in the mainstream music scene. They will be more likely to be heard at the reception than the ceremony. These songs show love as an exciting experience and make a wedding more fun.

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Should Your DJ Take Requests

Your love story has always had a soundtrack. For every major moment in your relationship, there is a piece of music that takes you right back to that first kiss, that awkward slow dance, or that restaurant where you popped the question. So it’s only natural to want these songs played at your wedding. There’s no other way to tell your story than with the playlist that defines your journey. So what do you do when your DJ takes Grandma’s third request of the Macarena? It can be hard to balance what you want to hear with what your guests want to dance to. But there are ways to handle the music, all of which require good communication with your DJ. Take a few minutes to reflect on what rules you may want to set for your special day with the help of this article.

Music is a key part of any wedding reception. If you’ve made the choice to hire a DJ instead of a live band, your next step is to build a playlist of songs that you and your partner have to have at your wedding. Take your time with this step; spend a couple of weeks slowly building a playlist on Spotify or Apple Music. Talk with friends, look through photo albums, and revisit old memories to build your collection of songs. What was playing during your first date? What was your first concert together? If you’re honoring traditions such as the first dance for the bride and groom, the mother-son dance, and the father-daughter dance, find songs for these moments and tell the DJ your desired order. Oftentimes, these couples will not want to dance to the full song, only the first minute or so. Your DJ can edit the song down, or fade out the music when the dance feels complete. Your groomsmen and/or bridesmaids may want to celebrate with a song for their group, so talk to them and see if there is a song you can all agree fits the mood.

Your reception playlist can have a strict order that you set before the ceremony, or it can be a group of songs with no set order. But now comes the tricky part: do you let your guests make requests? First, consider if your DJ is even able to take requests. Odds are good that they have a massive collection of songs already downloaded, or they are using the venue’s wireless internet and streaming software to pull songs. However, if your wedding is in a more remote location, you may not have Wi-Fi. Let the DJ know ahead of time if there is a lack of internet access, and they will download your songs and any extra music ahead of time. Requests may then be limited to what they have stored in their library. 

Remember, it’s your ceremony. You can make the decision to only have pre-selected music played during your romantic evening. Or, you can allow your DJ to take requests from your guests. If you do, be sure to communicate with your DJ if any specific requests are off-limits. Maybe your partner can’t stand those “cheesy” line dances, or perhaps you allowed children to attend and don’t want anything played that contains foul language. Let them know, and ask them to politely deny any of those requests. If your wedding has a theme, you may tell your DJ not to play any requests that don’t fit the tone of that theme. If your guests get upset that their songs are not being played, explain to them the choice you made to deny or curate requests, and they will understand. 

All of this boils down to communication with your wedding DJ. Take care in selecting who will play the music, how they will talk to your wedding planner and guests, and what they can provide in terms of a music library or streaming. Build a playlist over time while you’re planning, and consider whether or not you want your playlist to grow at the ceremony based on the guest’s desires. You can keep your soundtrack untouched, or let your friends and family put their spin on it; just decide ahead of time, and make sure your decision reflects what you want from your unforgettable night. 

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Is it important to meet your DJ in person before the wedding?

In the past couple of years, we have all learned how to not meet in person. Virtual options have made it so we can meet with anyone from the comfort of our home. If you do not want to talk to someone, you can send an email. If you need to see them but do not want to leave the house, you can set up a virtual meeting. It is easier than ever to not meet anyone in person. So why meet with your DJ in person? There are so many vendors you already have to deal with. Why should you specifically meet with them in person while planning your wedding?

Check Their Vibe

Many DJs sound great on paper. They come recommended by the venue. They have great reviews online. They respond to your emails promptly. They seem like the full package. But to make sure they are legit you should meet them in person. Sometimes a DJ is not what they seem. They may be great in every way, but still not be the right fit for you. Meeting them face to face will help you see how authentic their claims are. You can also start to develop a relationship with them the more you meet with them in person. This will help you in the long run when they DJ your wedding.

The Same Page

The DJ needs to check your vibe as much as you need to check theirs. By meeting in person, they can get a better idea about who you are as a couple. You can go over songs you love, songs you hate, and your general expectations. No one can really get to know you via email. You can send a list of what you want, but that is not enough. There is so much more to DJing than just playing music. They need to get to know you to serve you better.

Your DJ Will Be In Person

The DJ is the face of your wedding. Well, you are the face of your wedding, but your DJ is at least the host. They are responsible for making sure everyone is entertained at your reception. They are responsible for making sure that the transitions between events goes smoothly. The better your DJ knows you, the better they can make your wedding work. Your DJ is going to be in person at your wedding. You should meet with them in person since they will have to be front and center in front of your guests.

Peace of Mind

Meeting your DJ in person will give you some peace of mind. You can know that you have made the right choice. Emailing them will keep you on edge. There is no way to actually know that they will be a good fit unless you meet in person. You can know they are capable of arriving on time and are going to serve you properly. Most DJs will expect to meet in person since it will help them as much as it helps you.

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Your DJ has no insurance – what could go wrong?

We all know insurance is tricky to deal with. No one wants to spend copious amounts of money on insurance. It is especially disheartening to spend a lot on insurance when it is likely that nothing will go wrong. A DJ service having insurance may seem excessive. It could seem like an added fee that is someone trying to make a quick buck. But it is important to have some level of liability insurance in writing with your DJ. The last thing you want after your wedding is to have to go into a litigious battle about DJ equipment. Taking the time to sort out liability could end up saving buckets of money in the event of an accident. But it is JUST a DJ right? What could go wrong?

Damages

The most common problem a DJ faces is damages to equipment. Between moving into the spaces and moving out of the spaces there is plenty of potential for damages. But what about during your ceremony and reception? A speaker could be knocked down by an overzealous party guest. A microphone could be dropped during one of the speeches. Many things could happen to the equipment during your event. Who is liable for the damages? Does your guest have to take responsibility for the problems they may have caused? Does the blame fall on you as the host? It’s the DJ’s equipment, why don’t they pay for it? The waters become muddy. Without a clear understanding beforehand, you may have to end up paying out of pocket for brand new equipment.

Theft

Good quality DJ equipment is expensive. The potential of theft is always lurking around the corner. If someone were to walk off with your DJ’s equipment you face the same problem as before with damages. Who has to take the blame for it? Without deciding that, it could put you out hundreds of dollars. Additionally, you do not always know the morality of an uninsured DJ. They could pull a con on you claiming that their equipment was damaged or stolen. No insurance means there is nothing in writing to protect you. You may end up buying these sleazy DJs even better equipment than they had before. Do not get duped by a sketchy DJ.

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Are couples skipping the garter and bouquet toss?

The garter and bouquet toss have been a staple of the wedding tradition for years. The bride has all the single ladies line up and throws her bouquet back. The passionate singles rush to catch the bouquet. They hope it will bring them luck in catching a husband of their own. The groom on the other hand throws the garter that he retrieved from his wife’s thigh. The single men competitively fight to gain possession of the garter. They too pine for a bride of their own.

This is an old tradition. Many couples are opting to skip or replace the garter and bouquet toss. Some like to hold on to the tradition. It is undeniably an entertaining spectacle. Seeing a group of people clamor to catch an object is funny. Guests have come to expect the tosses when they attend a wedding. But couples are still deciding to forgo this specific tradition for many reasons.

Archaic Roots

The tradition, as you can tell from the first section, is not a very modern one. The idea of people being desperate to wed is not as common anymore. It hearkens back to the time of matchmaking and the nuclear family being the ideal. In the modern era, the pressure to wed is not as heavy. Many singles are happy with their station or have various situations they are happy with. It can come across as sexist. It enforces the mindset that women are fawning for husbands and that men are desperate for a wife. Now, that may be reading too much into this idea. It can definitely be interpreted as harmless fun. But at its core it still seems a little problematic.

It’s Awkward

Even if it does not come across as sexist, it is an awkward tradition. It singles out all the singles who may feel somewhat embarrassed to be up there. There is a pressure placed on single people to go up and catch the garter or bouquet. Sure, some single people are ecstatic to be participating. But many find the thought uncomfortable. Regardless, the clamoring to catch the item can end up being somewhat of a safety hazard. It can get people knocked into or hurt the feelings of someone jumping in the way. 

After the items are caught, there is a school yard style “oo and aw” that comes from the two who caught each object. There is the prom king and queen mentality of now these two are together. It is weird. Often one or the other leans way too far into it. It makes the other person uncomfortable and in turn the whole situation feels messy. Plus for those who did not catch it there is this weird walk of shame if they wanted to catch it. The whole thing could go off without a hitch. But in general, it creates a volatile situation.

So Many Better Traditions

There are so many better wedding traditions. The same thing done over and over at a wedding makes the events seem played out. Many couples are replacing the garter and bouquet toss with their own ideas. Being creative can lead to innovative traditions that will leave guests talking. Even if it is not replaced, the guests are not hard pressed to not have done the tosses. Most guests won’t even notice if they are having fun with the rest of the wedding. Instead of breaking the action of the reception for a weird, old tradition, it may be time to try some new traditions.

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High Energy Songs For Your Grand Entrance

Your ceremony was gorgeous and everything you ever dreamed it would be! Congratulations are in order! So what is next for the happy couple? A party! But not just any party. It is your wedding reception. You have to make a big splash walking into your wedding reception. The DJ is going to hype up you and your party. You are going to burst through the doors in a blaze of glory. All eyes will be on you so what song is playing? What song should you play to match that crazy, electrifying energy of introducing yourself as a new couple? Here are some songs that we think will get your guests pumped as you make your grand entrance.

Classic Rock

Going with a Classic Rock song can help you boom into your reception. These songs are designed to be played for stadiums. Classic Rock songs compete with sold out crowds that chant for more. They are made to get a crowd riled up. The following songs can get your guests into a frenzy (in a good way). 

“Rock and Roll All Nite” by KISS

“Walk This Way” by Aerosmith

“Song 2” by Blur

“Don’t Stop Believing” by Journey

“Crazy Little Thing Called Love” by Queen

Pop Country

In the same way Classic Rock gets stadiums jumping, you could go for the southern charm side. Pop Country is a great choice if you are looking for a little more of a down home style entrance. You can get the hoedown kicked off right with one of these Pop Country hits.

“Fancy Like” by Walker Hayes

“Here for the Party” by Gretchen Wilson

“Crushing It” by Brad Paisley

“That’s My Kind of Night” by Luke Bryan

“The South” by The Cadillac Three

Modern Pop

The Modern Pop genre is all about chasing the positive vibes. These songs are played at clubs or parties all over. They are easily recognizable and will get the crowd grooving. Pick one of these songs and you will get your guests to sing along with your entrance. 

“24K Magic” by Bruno Mars

“Fly as Me” by Silk Sonic

“Shut Up and Dance” by Walk the Moon

“Can’t Stop the Feeling” by Justin Timberlake

“My Type” by Saint Motel

Throwback Pop

“Oh, wow! I haven’t heard that song in forever!” Throwback Pop is fun for your guests to take a little old with the new. Show off your music history knowledge with one of these Throwbacks. You might even have it on vinyl!

“Whoomp (There It Is)” By Tag Team

“SexyBack” by Justin Timberlake

“I Gotta Feeling” by The Black Eyed Peas

“Bring ‘Em Out” by TI

“Take on Me” by Aha

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Wedding Band or DJ? Choosing the Right Music for Your Reception

Wedding band or DJ. Can’t decide between the two? We’ve created a pros and cons list of both to help you determine which style of entertainment is right for you and your big day.

Pros of Booking a Wedding DJ 

At SCE Event Group, our professional, full-time DJs work directly with you to customize your wedding soundscape. But the duties of an SCE DJ reach beyond simply manning the playlist. Unlike most wedding bands, SCE Event Group offers premium event enhancements like dancing on the clouds, cold spark fountains and CO2 blasts. We also make announcements throughout the reception, introduce the bridal party and groomsmen, act as a liaison between you and your guests and facilitate the overall flow of the day. In short: SCE ensures that your wedding day is flawless. 

 

 

Pros of Booking a Wedding Band 

The obvious pro of booking a wedding band is the unbeatable energy that comes with live music. Luckily at SCE Event Group, we incorporate those same energetic, live music elements into our sets with SCE Fusion. Whether you want a percussionist to accompany your DJ throughout the reception, or an electric violinist to entertain at cocktail hour, we are fully equipped to fulfill your wedding entertainment needs. Our SCE Fusion option blends the best of both entertainment worlds so that you can have your cake and eat it too.  

 

 

Cons of Booking a Wedding Band 

When you book a wedding band for your big day, you’re married to a particular style. Consequently, genre-jumping and song requests may not be as seamless as they would be with a DJ. Big bands can also occupy a lot of real estate and your venue may or may not be equipped to accommodate an oversized set up. Another con of booking a band for your wedding is that they may be unwilling to MC and keep your reception running on schedule. Conversely, with a DJ you’ll enjoy an endless repertoire of songs, a tidier setup and professional MC services. 

 

 

Cons of Booking a Wedding DJ 

We’re confident when we say that there aren’t any cons to hiring a wedding DJ. When you book with us at SCE Event Group, you’re guaranteed a professional, one-of-a-kind experience. Our team members take a boutique-style approach to your event to ensure that your day is completely your own. 

 

Wedding band or DJ. Why not both? No matter the vibe of your wedding, we’ll bring the entertainment to match it. Contact us today to see how we can craft the wedding of your dreams. 

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